As the days become fewer and the nights become longer it’s also the time when we get sick of the same old stuff. Even things that we think we will enjoy more as we grow older. How about a list of the things that we have always wanted to do, but had no clue when we were younger.
Well, it’s been almost four years since our last blog, so I figured I owed you a quick update. Of course, like the last update, there’s more to say, but I’ll spare you.
I think we should stop being so hard on ourselves, eh? When we first started, most of these things were things we thought we’d love to do, but now they are just things to be. I mean, if I had to describe them in a sentence, its “I hate myself for wanting to do this” or “I hate myself for wanting to do that.
And the problem is… you don’t want to hate yourself for that.
That’s not an exaggeration. The problem is, you have to remember that you are only as good as the people around you. And if you haven’t got a lot of friends, you will be more prone to get yourself into trouble. Because you can’t be alone in your thoughts.
The other problem is if you have a lot of friends, you can find yourself constantly thinking about the people you have friends with. This is a problem because it interferes with your focus and concentration. Instead of focusing on your own things, you are constantly thinking about your friends, and you are constantly tempted to think about your friends when things are not going well.
A friend once told me that he wished he had a friend who wasn’t always in the middle of a conversation with someone else. That way you would only have to deal with the people you were talking to, and not having to worry about “the people you were talking to” could make life infinitely easier. Even if it’s just one of your friends, a lot can be said about their personality and what they can bring to an argument.
Its also important to remember that there is a difference between being in the middle of a conversation with someone and being one of the people in the conversation. Your friends may not be in the conversation with you, but you might be one of the people they are discussing with.
When discussing something else, you can often hear a person’s tone of voice and facial expressions. It takes a lot of practice to master this and remember it, but you can also get it wrong by talking past your friends. One of the most important things to remember with friends is that they are not listening to your conversation. In fact, they probably have a completely different agenda and are completely unaware of your conversation.
This is why it is so important that you avoid being the “other”. You are not the other person. You are not listening to their conversation. You are not the person who has the same agenda, and you are not the target of their conversation. Instead, you should be the person who is interested in the conversation. Your goal should be to take down one of the Visionaries and not just be there to talk to them.